Flying to Hawaii with a Baby & Toddler
My Mom lives on Kauai and I try to visit her at least once a year from our home in Seattle. Since my husband has limited vacation days, I usually just take my son with me.
However, this year was my first time flying solo with both my kids. And traveling with a toddler on a plane is no easy feat.
I knew I’d have my hands full, so I needed to find a backpack that could easily fit under the seat in front of me on the airplane.
I created this Hawaii packing list for flying with babies, toddlers and young children.
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The flight from Seattle to Hawaii is usually about 5.5 hours. I’m so happy there’s a direct flight!
Typically, airlines offer us several rounds of beverages and a snack. There often isn’t a built-in screen for in-flight entertainment.
So, I usually have to pack food and entertainment on board. See my top tips for flying with a baby. (post contains affiliate links.)
Hawaii Packing List: What I Pack in my Carry On Backpack
SNACKS, SNACKS, AND MORE SNACKS
I feel like I probably fill half my backpack with snacks. Not only do they keep my boys’ tummies full, but they keep them quiet and occupied.
DIAPERS AND PULL-UPS
I like to pack a diaper for every 2 hours of a flight, so for Hawaii I packed 3 diapers for my 9 month old.
1ST CLASS KID TRAVEL PILLOW
You can read my full review of the 1st Class Kid. Basically, it extends the airplane seat so kids can lay down and sleep easier.
CARES SAFETY HARNESS
When traveling with a toddler on a plane, it can be difficult to get them to stay in their seat.
If you want an easy way to keep your kids contained in their seat, I recommend the CARES Safety Harness.
It’s lightweight, barely takes up any space in your carry on bag and it’s easy to install. And it gives them the secure feeling of being in a car seat without actually being in one.
You can read my full review here.
NOISE CANCELING HEADPHONES
I have a pair for my toddler and myself. The sound of the airplane wears me out and makes me a grouchy Mama. I think it does the same for my 3 year old.
We keep our headphones on even if we aren’t listening to anything and we usually get off the plane in better spirits than when we don’t use them.
I definitely let my 3.5-year-old indulge in as much screen time as he wants when we fly.
We usually download a few movies and TV shows and make sure to have some games that don’t require wifi.
I’m finding that very few clothes seem to have pockets nowadays. Nursing clothes are one of the worst offenders.
I really don’t like hauling extra stuff, but I’ve found that a couple of toys can make a rough flight go a lot smoother.
This past flight to Hawaii, I brought a couple of new toys that the kids hadn’t really played with before and it was a good distraction.
CHANGE OF CLOTHES
I pack an extra set of clothes for baby, preschooler, and myself. I live by the motto that “blowouts happen.” That means anyone in the vicinity of the baby might need a change of clothes. Better safe than poopy.
I feel like travelers of all ages should pack wipes in their carry on. Besides diaper changes, I mostly use them to clean hands/faces after snacking and wipe down anything I think my kids are going to put their mouths on.
Da Kine Prom Backpack
I’m a very thematic person, so I knew I wanted to find a backpack with a tropical vibe to carry all my essentials.
A bright print would be ideal. And I didn’t want it to clash with my Tula baby carrier, since I’d be wearing them together a lot.
The Da Kine Prom backpack is awesome because there’s a spot for everything.
The main zippered area features a sleeve for my laptop as well as a sleeve for my iPad. I was able to stash other electronics in this area and bulky items I wanted closer to my back.
In the middle zippered area, I stored my gallon bags filled with snacks and toys. In the smaller zippered area, I kept my diapers, wipes, and extra clothes (Note: there is also a zippered area within this area that is perfect for holding used diapers.)
I ended up re-arranging a bit on the flight and put my packet of wipes on the outside pocket for easier access.
I didn’t even use the water bottle pockets or the zippered areas right next to them (which would be perfect for storing keys or a small wallet.) However, I did use these pockets a lot after the flight.
This backpack fit all our needs while traveling in Hawaii. I’ve actually been using it as my regular diaper bag for the past month. It’s been durable and functional while also a bit fun! Here’s a similar Dakine Prom Laptop Backpack.
Da Kine sent me product for review purposes. All opinions are my own.
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